FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS


What happens in mediation? A Mediator will help you explore and agree solutions to your issues together in an informal, private setting. Mediators are qualified professionals. They do not take sides and will be neutral and supportive throughout any discussions. You will be helped to express your views in fair discussion. You will have the chance to listen and be heard.

How much will I have to pay? It may cost you nothing. We can assess you to see if you qualify for Public Funding. If you are eligible your mediation will be free. If you are not eligible for Public Funding we charge a reasonable fee according to your income. Please call 01245 492200 and ask for a list of our charges. Mediation is generally less expensive than litigation.

Is the service confidential? Whatever you say during mediation is confidential. The only exceptions are:
*if there are safety concerns for family members, in particular for your children.
*if there is suspicion of illegal activity from your financial details e.g. proceeds of crime

Will my ex-partner be present during the meetings? Yes. You and the person(s) with whom you are in dispute will work together during the sessions with the mediator. If you are concerned for your safety, steps will be taken to safeguard you.

How long will mediation take? Mediation usually takes between 3 and 5 sessions. Each session lasts for an hour and a half. If you want to discuss, and agree, only the issues to do with your children this is known as 'Child Only Mediation'. Child Only Mediation usually takes 3 sessions. If you want to discuss issues to do with property and finance, and your children this is known as 'All Issues Mediation'. All Issues Mediation usually takes about 5 sessions.

How does it end? At the end of mediation it is likely that agreement will have been reached. We will write all of your decisions and agreements into appropriate clear documents. Your solicitor can then convert these into legal format.

Will I need to see a solicitor? It is recommended - Mediators can explain information about legal systems and legal rights, but they cannot give you advice. We will help you find a solution that is best for the whole family. If you are getting divorced you will need to file a Petition with the Court - the written agreement you have from Essex Mediation may form the basis for the 'Settlement' within the Divorce Petition. You may want to get legal advice about the contents of the agreement - which is why we recommend a solicitor. All parties need to have their own solicitor when dealing with finance and property matters. We can supply a list of family solicitors in your area.

What happens if mediation doesn't work out? Mediation is voluntary. Any party can withdraw at any time and seek legal advice.

Can you help if we decide to stay together? No. Mediation is different to relationship counselling but some couples may find it helps to clarify options. If you are seeking help with reconciliation, please see our Links page for alternative services.

Where and when can I have an appointment? Please visit our Contact page for details of our location and hours.
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